Long-term care—whether in-home assistance, assisted living, or nursing home care—is one of the largest and most unpredictable retirement expenses. The median cost of a private nursing home room exceeds $100,000/year, and Medicare covers almost none of it. This guide explains the true costs of long-term care, whether long-term care insurance makes sense, and self-funding strategies to protect your retirement savings if you need care.

Key Takeaway

70% of Americans over 65 will need some form of long-term care, with an average duration of 3 years. Without a plan, long-term care costs can deplete a lifetime of savings in just 2-4 years. The key is deciding NOW whether to insure, self-fund, or rely on Medicaid.

The True Cost of Long-Term Care

Long-term care costs vary dramatically by location and level of care needed:

2025 National Median Costs (per year)

Type of Care Annual Cost Notes
Home health aide (44 hrs/week) $75,000 Most affordable option if family can supplement
Adult day care (5 days/week) $21,000 Provides relief for family caregivers
Assisted living facility $64,000 Includes housing, meals, some personal care
Nursing home (semi-private room) $104,000 24/7 medical care and supervision
Nursing home (private room) $116,000 Higher cost for privacy

Geographic variation: Costs are 30-50% higher in major metro areas (NYC, San Francisco, Boston) and 20-30% lower in rural/Southern states.

How Long Will You Need Care?

  • Average duration: 3 years
  • 20% need care for 5+ years: This is where costs become catastrophic
  • Men vs. women: Women need care longer on average (3.7 years vs. 2.2 years for men)
  • Couples: 50% chance at least one spouse will need 5+ years of care

Key Takeaway

The "average" 3-year duration is misleading—many people need NO care (30%), while others need 5-10 years. Long-term care planning is about protecting against the catastrophic scenario, not the average one.

What Medicare and Health Insurance DON'T Cover

Many retirees incorrectly assume Medicare will pay for long-term care. It won't.

Medicare Coverage (Very Limited)

  • Skilled nursing facility: Covers up to 100 days ONLY if:
    • You had a 3+ day hospital stay first
    • You need skilled nursing or rehab (not custodial care)
    • Days 1-20: Fully covered
    • Days 21-100: You pay $204/day coinsurance (2025)
    • After 100 days: You pay 100%
  • Home health care: Covers part-time skilled nursing or therapy (NOT full-time personal care or help with daily activities)
  • What Medicare NEVER covers: Long-term custodial care (bathing, dressing, eating, toileting), assisted living, nursing home stays beyond 100 days

Medicaid Coverage (Asset-Limited)

  • What it covers: Nursing home care and some home/community-based services
  • Eligibility catch: Must have very low income and assets (typically under $2,000 in countable assets for an individual)
  • Spend-down requirement: Most people must deplete nearly all savings before qualifying
  • Spousal protections: Healthy spouse can keep the home and ~$150,000-$155,000 in assets (2025)

Long-Term Care Insurance: Does It Make Sense?

Long-term care insurance (LTCI) pays for care when you can't perform 2+ Activities of Daily Living (ADLs): bathing, dressing, eating, toileting, transferring, continence.

How Long-Term Care Insurance Works

  • Daily/monthly benefit: Policy pays up to a set amount per day/month (e.g., $150/day or $4,500/month)
  • Benefit period: How long benefits last (common options: 3 years, 5 years, lifetime)
  • Elimination period: Waiting period before benefits start (like a deductible), typically 30-90 days
  • Inflation protection: Optional rider that increases benefit 3-5%/year to keep pace with rising care costs

Typical LTCI Policy Costs (2025)

  • Age 55: $2,000-$3,000/year for $165,000 total benefit (3 years at $150/day)
  • Age 60: $3,000-$4,500/year for same benefit
  • Age 65: $4,500-$7,000/year for same benefit
  • Couple (both age 60): $5,000-$8,000/year with shared benefit and spousal discount

Key factors affecting cost: Age at purchase, benefit amount, benefit period, inflation protection, health status

When LTCI Makes Sense

  • Net worth $200k-$2M: Can afford premiums but don't have enough to self-fund 5+ years of care
  • Family history of longevity/dementia: Higher likelihood of needing extended care
  • Want to protect spouse's financial security: Prevents one spouse's care costs from depleting assets needed by the other
  • Want to preserve inheritance: Keep assets for heirs rather than spending on care
  • Purchase in your 50s: Premiums are more affordable and you're more likely to qualify health-wise

When LTCI May NOT Make Sense

  • Net worth under $200k: You'll likely qualify for Medicaid relatively quickly—paying premiums may not be worth it
  • Net worth over $3M+: You can self-fund care without risking financial security
  • Can't afford premiums comfortably: If premiums strain your budget now, they'll be worse in 10-20 years (and you can't let policy lapse after paying for decades)
  • Significant health issues: You may not qualify, or premiums will be prohibitively expensive
  • Age 70+: Premiums are very expensive and you may not pass health underwriting

Key Takeaway

LTCI is NOT for everyone. It's best for people with $200k-$2M in assets who buy in their 50s. If you're too wealthy to need it or too poor to afford it, self-funding or Medicaid planning may be better options.

Hybrid Life Insurance + LTCI Policies

Traditional LTCI has a "use it or lose it" problem—if you never need care, you lose all premiums paid. Hybrid policies solve this:

How Hybrid Policies Work

  • Combination product: Permanent life insurance with a long-term care rider
  • If you need care: Accelerate death benefit to pay for care (e.g., $300k policy → $6,000/month for 50 months)
  • If you never need care: Full death benefit pays to heirs
  • Premium structure: Often single lump-sum or 10-year payment plan (not lifetime premiums like traditional LTCI)

Pros and Cons vs. Traditional LTCI

  • Pros:
    • Guaranteed premiums (can't increase like traditional LTCI)
    • Money isn't "lost" if you don't need care—heirs get death benefit
    • Easier to qualify (less strict health underwriting)
  • Cons:
    • Higher upfront cost ($50k-$150k lump sum or $5k-$10k/year for 10 years)
    • Less comprehensive coverage than dedicated LTCI
    • Reduces inheritance if care is needed (since death benefit is used for care)

Best for: People who want LTCI protection but don't want "use it or lose it" premiums, and who have a lump sum to invest

Self-Funding Long-Term Care

If you have significant assets or prefer not to buy insurance, you can self-fund care costs:

How Much to Set Aside

  • Conservative estimate: $300k-$500k earmarked for potential care costs (covers 3-5 years in most areas)
  • Aggressive estimate: $150k-$250k (covers 2-3 years, assumes you'd transition to Medicaid if needed)
  • Rule of thumb: Have at least $1M in investable assets to comfortably self-fund without risking retirement security

Strategies for Self-Funding

1. Dedicated Long-Term Care Fund

  • Approach: Earmark $300k-$500k in a separate account for LTC expenses
  • Investment: Keep in conservative, liquid investments (bonds, short-term CDs, money market)
  • Pro: Ensures funds are available when needed
  • Con: Reduces growth potential of those assets

2. Home Equity as LTC Reserve

  • Approach: Count on selling home or reverse mortgage to fund care
  • Pro: Keeps assets invested for growth in the meantime
  • Con: Assumes home value holds and you're willing to sell/move

3. Income-Focused Portfolio

  • Approach: Build portfolio that generates $50k-$75k/year in dividends/interest to cover care costs
  • Pro: Can fund care from income without depleting principal
  • Con: Requires very large portfolio ($1.2M+ at 5% yield)

4. Annuity with LTC Rider

  • Approach: Purchase immediate or deferred annuity with long-term care doubler (if you need care, payments double)
  • Pro: Guaranteed income plus LTC protection
  • Con: Annuities have fees and reduce liquidity

Key Takeaway

Self-funding works if you have $1M+ in assets and are comfortable with the risk. The key is EARMARKING funds for LTC and not assuming your general retirement savings will be enough—many people underestimate care costs.

Medicaid Planning (Spend-Down Strategy)

If you don't have insurance or sufficient assets to self-fund, Medicaid will eventually cover nursing home care—but only after spending down assets:

Medicaid Eligibility (2025)

  • Countable asset limit: $2,000 (individual), varies by state
  • Exempt assets:
    • Primary residence (up to ~$713,000 equity in most states)
    • One vehicle
    • Personal belongings, household goods
    • Prepaid funeral/burial
  • Income limits: Varies by state; some states have no income limit if care costs exceed income

Spousal Protections

  • Community spouse resource allowance: Healthy spouse can keep ~$155,000 in assets (2025)
  • Home protection: If healthy spouse lives in the home, it's exempt (no matter the value in most states)
  • Income protection: Healthy spouse keeps their own income plus potentially some of the institutionalized spouse's income

Look-Back Period and Gifting Rules

  • 5-year look-back: Medicaid looks back 5 years for asset transfers made for less than fair market value
  • Penalty period: If you gave away $100k two years before applying, you may be ineligible for months/years
  • Strategic gifting: Must be done at least 5 years before needing care to avoid penalties

Warning: Medicaid planning is complex and varies by state. Consult an elder law attorney before making large asset transfers.

Family Caregiving: The Hidden Cost

Many families provide unpaid care to avoid facility costs—but it's not truly "free":

  • Lost wages: Adult children often reduce work hours or quit jobs to provide care
  • Physical/emotional toll: Caregiver stress, burnout, health issues
  • Opportunity cost: Years out of the workforce reduce Social Security benefits and retirement savings
  • Home modifications: Ramps, grab bars, stair lifts, accessible bathrooms
  • Respite care: Family caregivers need breaks—hiring temporary help or adult day care

AARP estimates: Family caregivers provide an average of $7,000/year in unpaid care (valued at market rates)

How to Plan for Long-Term Care Costs

  1. Assess your risk: Family history, health status, gender (women need care longer)
  2. Calculate self-funding capacity: Can you afford $100k-$150k/year for 3-5 years without depleting assets?
  3. Decide on insurance vs. self-funding:
    • Under $200k assets → Plan for Medicaid
    • $200k-$2M assets → Consider LTCI or hybrid policy
    • Over $2M assets → Self-fund is likely viable
  4. Shop for LTCI in your 50s: Premiums are cheaper and you're more likely to qualify
  5. If buying LTCI, prioritize:
    • Inflation protection (essential—care costs rise 3-5%/year)
    • 3-5 year benefit period (balance of coverage and affordability)
    • 90-day elimination period (keeps premiums lower)
  6. Review annually: LTC planning isn't "set and forget"—revisit as assets, health, and family situation change

Using Bullseye to Model Long-Term Care Costs

Bullseye helps you test how long-term care expenses would affect your retirement plan:

  • Add LTC as an expense: Create one-time or recurring expenses for care costs (e.g., $100k/year for 3 years starting at age 80)
  • Test multiple scenarios: Use the Scenarios feature to model:
    • No LTC needed (baseline)
    • 3 years of care at $100k/year
    • 5 years of care at $120k/year (catastrophic scenario)
  • See asset depletion: Bullseye projects whether your assets can sustain the expense or if you'd run out of money
  • Compare insurance vs. self-funding: Model paying LTCI premiums vs. setting aside assets for self-funding

Limitation: Bullseye doesn't automatically calculate Medicaid spend-down or spousal protections—you'll need to model those manually.

Summary: Your Long-Term Care Planning Checklist

Key Takeaway

Long-term care is one of the biggest threats to retirement security. Plan NOW—whether through insurance, self-funding, or Medicaid planning—because waiting until you need care is too late.

  1. Understand the costs: $75k-$116k/year depending on level of care
  2. Know what Medicare doesn't cover: Almost nothing beyond 100 days post-hospitalization
  3. Assess your risk: 70% need some care, 20% need 5+ years
  4. Choose your strategy:
    • LTCI if you have $200k-$2M and can buy in your 50s
    • Hybrid policy if you want death benefit + LTC coverage
    • Self-fund if you have $1M+ and prefer control
    • Medicaid if assets are limited
  5. Model the impact: Use retirement planning tools to test how LTC costs would affect your finances
  6. Review and adjust: LTC planning should evolve as your health, assets, and family situation change